老妇人记得多年前于上海曾花费不赀买下一只天鹅。“这家伙……”小贩吹嘘着，“伸长脖子期盼化鹅，你瞧，它现在美得令人不忍下肚。”然后这妇人抱着天鹅，千里迢迢漂洋过海，满怀期盼地前往美国。旅途中，她告诉天鹅：“在美国，我会有个像我一样的女儿，没人会以她丈夫饱嗝的声响来衡量她，没人会看低她，因为她将说的一口流利的英文，她将衣食无缺，不必忍辱负重，她会了解我的苦心，因为我会把这只天鹅送给她，它代表比预期更好的结果。”但当她抵达新国度，移民关员夺走她的鹅，妇人惊惶地挥舞手臂
很自然的
经美妈妈逼迫经美学弹琴的那一小段
让我想起了自己的童年也有过那么一段类似的经历
妈妈的期待好高
恨不得把我培养成全才
音乐家 画家 体育健将 学术精英。。。
电子琴课 绘画课 网球课 游泳课 各种补习班接踵而至
那个时候的情形还不像现在：孩子都去上课外补习班
我们那时其他孩子还沉浸于自己的花花小世界里
我就要对着那破电子琴练个不停
以后大量的事实证明
练唱歌都会走调的我根本就没有音乐细胞
但是当时我的妈妈可不这么认为
在她的眼中只要自己肯花钱 肯栽培
自己的女儿就可以无所不能 立即成才
当时我很不情愿
电影里经美的表情像极了当年的我
而经美妈妈的坚持也像极了当年的我妈妈
我不记得妈妈是何时打消了她的坚持
也不记得自己何时脱离了苦海
那台电子琴仿佛就是我儿时的刑具
就跟容嬷嬷夹紫薇手那个东西差不多
我的手一上去
就开始哇哇大哭
中国的家长就是这样
其实他们逼迫自己孩子无止境的学这学那的原因
除了让孩子受相应的教育之外
更多的还是为自己在朋友面前更有炫耀的资本
他们为此乐此不彼
One problem that ethnic Chinese must face is the culture conflict. As descendants of immigrants, they must try their best to merge the Chinese culture with the American culture. Although they can speak fluent English right now and have accustomed to the American life style, they still have some “Chinese Thought” in their mind. They care much about what their parents think of them. For example, in the movie, the daughter Waverly decides to play chess which she ever gave up for a period of time again, but her mom tells her it is not so easy to do that. Then she loses her confidence and becomes weak. Her mom’s behavior and attitude really has a great impact on her even though her mom didn’t notice it at all. She even married a Chinese man just because she wants to please her mom. Besides, in order to let her mom accept her fiancé, she taught him many Chinese manners before they
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