- It's been a really hard time for me, Roger. I mean, I miss my family. I feel like all the hard work I've done over the years, kicking the drugs, being a dad, I feel like it's all slipping away from me.
- It's not going away. It's transforming. You're going through something, which means...
- I don't think you understand what it's been like for me out here, how the life I'd hoped for... It's huge to finally embrace the life you never planned on. I wanted to make that record.
- We never would've survived at a major label with those restrictions.
- How the fuck do you know?
- Because that's not how the world works.
- What could you possibly know about how the world works?
- Listen, man, I think you're playing out some old family dynamic here... Apropos of what we were saying before about what people say about us? People feel you hold on to petty resentments.
大雨哗哗下，北京来电话，要我去当兵，我还没长大。
——民谣
7.5分。
某些题材似乎很小众，甚至难以理解。比如《女魔头》及《断背山》两部影片，虽然在奥斯卡斩获多项大奖，在国人眼中却不算佳作，因为同性恋问题在国内难以引发共鸣。对于一种社会现象，大众没有接受前，是很难共鸣的；同样好比先生在电视节目中所讲的收藏问题：每一类收藏的趋势都是轮回的，当一类收藏不被当时社会所接受的时候，不证明这类藏品不好。《格林伯格》不受欢迎的原因之一，我想在于：在大众眼中这是一个平凡的故事——年近不惑的老男人的混乱生活，和需要爱情的女人之间的混乱爱情。
但是我想，混乱生活中的不惑男人，在芳龄妙女面前，怎么会一次次拒绝呢？怎么解释他说“怕伤害她”呢？又怎么解释片中对他年轻时乐队事件的大幅描写呢？如果是一个描述正常人的片子，这些很难说的通。
开篇，罗格来到他弟弟家，帮助照看房子。因为他是亲戚
格林伯格，不是一个人，而是一类人，敏感，挑剔，难以控制情绪，却又胆小，中年危机境遇的牢骚满腹，空想，不甘，偶然会有冲动去像年轻人一样冒险，却又懦弱的自怨自艾、最终回到自己的舒适区，希望自己自由，却给自己内心设置很多规矩，期待别人，却又拒绝别人，给世界很多所谓“应该的样子”，却又处处无奈于现实……像不像一面镜子，巴纳姆效应。hurt people hurt peole，这句挺经典的，其实那不是精神病，而是一个害怕受伤而不断伤害别人以保护自己的回避型可怜人。
影片注重细节，很细腻
【格林伯格】吹毛与求疵的小岛生活
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